There’s a rapidly growing trend of men fleeing from seemingly good but financially dependent women. But only a decade ago, a woman having no job wasn’t a problem at all, as long as she was beautiful and great to be with, a man was grateful to have her in his life. All that has now become a thing of the past. More men now want to date and marry working-class women who have a job and can take care of their financial needs.
So why the sudden change?
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SOME WOMEN ARE MORE FIXATED ON HOW THEY LOOK
The reason most women are jobless isn’t because they are uneducated or mentally poor, per se. The truth is they’re just so fixated on how lascivious they look that they forget they actually need to work and earn money. They probably also have at a man around who offers support in one way or another, so why bother to work? Many men are starting to avoid this kind of women.
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SOME WOMEN ARE ANNOYINGLY UNGRATEFUL
There are broke people who you help and they’re thankful for it, but some women just feel entitled to being taken care of because they’re women or they look beautiful. It doesn’t matter how much you give her or what you do for her, she wouldn’t appreciate it enough, and there is also the tendency she’ll jilt you for a richer man the moment she finds him.
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MEN AREN’T ATTRACTED TO WOMEN WHO FEEL ENTITLED ANYMORE
A popular adage says “empty barrels that make the loudest noise”. Most broke women don’t know how hard it is to earn a dime, but they’ll quickly tell you how to spend your hard earned money. They’ll tell you to take them here or there, and will ask for money quicker than you can get it.
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SOME WOMEN AREN’T EVEN WORTH THE SWEAT
Really, are relationships not supposed to go both ways? How can any two persons be together if one party offers absolutely nothing in return. If a woman isn’t that financially successful, that’s understandable, but how about emotional and mental support? How about some meaningful contributions to her partner’s life in other ways?
Women. Funny creatures
You could be right, you know?
They are greatly needed to make the world complete too.
No one wants extra load biko…Lol
But women got needs sha
If you can’t take care of em’ then stay away.
Yeah they do, Marshall.
The problem isnt with taking care of their obvious needs, I think it’s mostly about dependence. Your girl hangs on you for all her needs, as simple as a handkerchief is she demands it of you, what’s the possibility of you reaching your desired heights with that on your neck?