90% of all the time you are better seen connected and communicating with online social apps of your smartphone, you find it a lot easier relating with people on personal chats, but when it comes to commenting on people’s views about a social concern, you are always missing; probably because you care too much what others think about your views and your personality. We must always take note of the fact that;
‘people are not celebrated socially for reasons that they are perfect beings but because they chose to care less what people think and focus more on doing what makes them feel better’.
A clear understanding of this simple fact and a little bit of its implementation would bring about a turn around for a confident you.
Most times our thoughts are beclouded with these questions;
Silly questions as above keep popping as you advance with your preparations for a date night. Too wrong to allow such thoughts in your head. Truth is, you are at your best when you are you. It’s most easier when you do things with less pressure and reduced thoughts of what people might think of you and your actions, this is because sometimes, people really don’t care about those things you kill yourself over
Confidence is certainty to handle a task, social events, without blunders. It is a human characteristic necessary for achieving excellent results and attaining success. Confidence is being, not just knowing.
To gain confidence you need to observe and listen to your inner dialogue. Most of the time you cajole yourself into feelings of insecurity, lack of confidence and low self-esteem through your thoughts. Developing positive inner dialogue builds self-confidence.
Appreciating and valuing who you are further makes you valid in the eyes of your beholders.
Unless you do something about improving your self-confidence, it will gradually get worse.
It is very okay to make blunders on first trial, consistent and persistent exposure to the right kind of influence will enhance your effectiveness in being socially confident.
EFFECTIVE ROUTINES TO BUILDING THE CONFIDENT YOU